Women

Pornography is hard to overcome, and help is needed to regain freedom.

Women who suffer from addiction to pornography need to know the Lord’s mercy. Also, women who have suffered trauma from spousal addiction need the tools to move forward in forgiveness, be heard and understood, have their feelings validated, and be taken care of in their pain. Here those who are struggling, who are impacted from spousal addiction and who are accompanying strugglers will find resources available to assist with healing and lasting freedom.

Blog Posts for Women

I’m Supposed To Be a Good Person

August 21, 2019

I’m supposed to be a good person. That statement repeated in my head like a broken record – playing over and over and over. It’s not a false statement. After all, Jesus tells us we “must be perfect, as [our] heavenly Father is perfect” (Matthew 5:48). I think that’s partly why it was so difficult to get out of my head. Not to mention the unthinkable: I am a woman. These facts created the perfect storm through which that statement sank its roots of shame into my heart. It was a heart hardened by years of addiction to pornography and masturbation.

What I Wish Someone Had Told Me

August 14, 2019

One day, after 11 years of marriage, my husband came home from work and told me that he had been suspended for a day without pay for viewing pornography at work. His only reason for telling me was because I handle the budget and I would have noticed that his paycheck amount was less. His boss even offered to help him hide it from me, which is disturbing. I was completely blindsided.

Turns Out, I Couldn’t Stop

May 29, 2019

I had people I was now held accountable to that I had to go to and admit my failure. [...] Just because it isn’t easy doesn’t make it impossible. It’s only impossible if we try to do it alone. I am not alone. And neither are you.

Introducing a Resource for Betrayed Catholic Women

July 20, 2018

Have you ever felt alone? I mean, really alone? Like there’s no one in the world who can help you with the grief or trauma you’re facing? There are thousands of women who experience this on a daily basis. They are the forgotten half of the pornography epidemic.

Theology of the Body: On Sex and the Meaning of Life

July 27, 2017

I thrive when I have something that inspires and drives me. You know, something that puts some pep in your step, wakes you up early in the morning, or even sends you to bed early just to be rested to tackle what you get to do that next day.

Are you over-spiritualizing your porn struggle?

May 4, 2017

Have you ever thought that you may be over-spiritualizing, or possibly under-spiritualizing, your struggle with pornography? This question may come as a surprise to you but asking yourself this question and responding accordingly may help you experience the breakthrough you’ve been fighting for. There needs to be a balance, and that can be difficult to find.

Courses and Email Challenges for Women

Bloom For Catholic Women

Bloom For Catholic Women offers therapeutic and Catholic-based online courses for women healing from the trauma of discovering their husband's sexual and/or pornography addiction.

Audience: Women
Language: English
Resource Type: Online courses
Cost: Monthly subscription - $10. Individuals courses - $50.

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The Novena for Purity

Join Covenant Eyes and the Angelic Warfare Confraternity for nine days of focused prayer with the Novena for Purity, where you’ll ask God to strengthen you in various ways as you seek to live a life of purity.

Audience: Men and women
Language: English
Resource Type: 9-Day email challenge
Cost: Free

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Ebooks for Women

Transformed by Beauty

In this ebook, you’ll meet a priest, a musician, a ballerina, and a bodybuilder who all have one thing in common: They found freedom, healing, and peace because they encountered the beauty of a transcendent God.

Audience: Men and women
Language: English
Resource Type: Ebook
Cost: Free

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