Taking Simple, Concrete Steps this Advent to Prepare the Way of the Lord

As you struggle to envision a way of life and love rooted in a purified sexuality, you may feel that living that way is sometimes more illusory than the pornographic fantasies that have enslaved us. But, living in a renewed sense of the reality of God’s creation of us as men and women in his image is not a fantasy.

Our desires, our thought patterns, our interior movements, and when and where we fall are all affected by the external world. A personal rule of life is a way of creating an exterior world that informs our interior world in a healthy, life-giving way. It is a way to exercise your will to order your life to God and the pursuit of what is true, good, and beautiful. 

During this 3-day workshop, attendees work to regain trust in their relationships that have been negatively affected by betrayal trauma. Using research-based tools, we help men dig into the underlying wounds and roots beneath their sexual behaviors. We have conducted nine workshops to date and have three to four scheduled per year. The next workshop is on November 7th. Men have attended from all over the United States.  

When a woman discovers that her husband has a secret porn addiction, she is likely to feel her world shaken to its core. She is in pain because her husband has sought sexual gratification from images on a screen, instead of her. This type of betrayal can spark plenty of concerns for any wife about her own sexual value and physical allurement. But, there is much more to it than that.